I’ve been thinking about
this since college, “that there should be a school for love.” LOL
But seriously, it always crosses my mind. Why? It’s because
most of us have been ruined/being ruined/soon to be ruined when we didn't handle being in-love in the right way.
Love is very difficult to describe. This subtle feeling may
occur because of a single look or how someone looks at you. Aminin, most of the
time it is the physical appearance that that plays a huge role in being
attracted to someone. Kung baga, it’s the starting point.
However, the physical
attraction is not enough. It is also the spiritual and emotional mutuality of
the partners. Therefore, if people do not vibe well with each other
spiritually, physical attraction may wear off soon.
It is difficult to conceal love from others especially
when the person you love is just beside you or within your social circle. People
who know you well will immediately notice the difference in your attitude and
in your aura whenever that person is near you. When you are ‘in love’ you
cannot hide your feelings no matter how hard you try. You will end up
expressing love one way or the other.
So, let’s now talk about
my dream of having a love school. Why on earth have I thought of having such?
It’s because your school, career, family, friends, are
affected when you get heartbroken. Yes, there should be a “love school” which I
imitated from the term “law school” where teachers will teach the students how to
handle relationships, cope up with separations, and how to love ones self. If
everyone will be taught about these things, maybe, just maybe, the world will
be full of “lovers”. Not the “lovers” that you’re thinking but my definition is:
Lover- a
person who loves himself/herself; a person who loves and appreciates small
things around him/her; a person who loves more and hates less.
They said that the feeling
of being ‘in love’ is the most beautiful ever. But some would say that being ‘in
love’ is the most painful thing that ever happened to them. A person ‘in love’ should
be happy, secured, appreciative, and all the positive words. You will find that
everything around you is bright, sunny, optimistic, happy, and so on. Being in
love is a unique experience all human being should undergo. However, some are
on the opposite side, they became hateful, unsecured, and unhappy. The latter
should not be the supposed result of being ‘in love’. If it ends that way, then
there is no love that binds you.
Anyway, this is just my thought. You may agree
with me or you may not. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and I know
that each of us has different DNA patterns so we act, speak, feel, look,
differently. It’s the way we handle ourselves anyway depending on the
environment we have.
