"Getting
married" is being a trend. It started when I graduated in college and that
was year 2009. 2013 na! That means, nadagdagan yung mga nagsipag-asawa sa batch
ko nung elementary,high school, and college. And why am I saying this? It
doesn't bother me, I hope so. LOL. I'm so fond of babies and wherever I go, if
the parents are not that suplado or suplada, I'll go near them and play with
their babies.
What
are you entering into if you're getting married? That means you go home early
for your husband/kids. You cut some of your gimiks, shopping, coffee dates, and
other social responsibilities.
What
is Marriage?
Marriage
is the process by which two people who love each other make their relationship
public, official, and permanent. It is the joining of two people in a bond that
putatively lasts until death, but in practice is increasingly cut short by
divorce, legal separation, annulment, etc.
Marriage
is supposed to be a union of two people in love. (But there are exceptions like
fixed marriages) But like every great thing in life, marriage has its
advantages and disadvantages. Here’s what I got from Yahoo.
The
ability to love and receive love in return. Marriage to someone you love gives
you an avenue to channel all your love and attention especially for people who
never really received love as children. Loving someone who loves you back is
the greatest feeling most married people experience in their lives.
Research
has shown that children raised by married couples do better than children
raised by single parents. Most religions encourage raising kids in this
(marriage) environment because it is believed to provide the necessary balance
in the upbringing of children. Let's face it; it is easier for two people to
raise kids than for one person to bear the burden of raising a kid(s) alone.
Raising kids is tasking for two people let alone one person!
The
best way to have great, wonderful and guiltless sex.
Marriage
provides some sort of security (especially for women), having someone who loves
and chooses to support you financially is also a great advantage (don't you
think?).
To
have someone to love unconditionally until death parts you.
Marriage
provides you with a companion that you can grow old with and share your stories
of the old days with.
Marriage
helps you to be tolerant, unselfish and caring. Many married people can tell
you for a fact that living with someone for the rest of your life is not one of
the easiest things for anyone, especially if the other person is totally
different from you.
Marriage
helps you to be disciplined in your finances, time and your sexual libido is
reserved for one person and one person alone (your wife or husband), period.
You
have someone to share life's challenges, rewards and sorrows with, a person who
actually knows what you are going through and feels the same way too.
You
don't have to worry about the dating game any more, you don't have to worry
that your hair line is receding or that your arse and thighs are getting
bigger.
Disadvantages
of Marriage
Sex
with only one person for the rest of your life. For some people, it is unfair
to have sex with only one person!
Everything
you own belongs to her and vice-versa
The
sacrifices or compromises you have to make in order to get along with your
in-laws who particularly get on your nerves
You
have to give up so much of your freedom in order to stay married
You
cannot afford to spend your own money at will because you have a family to
support
Having
to live with the same person (who sometimes annoys or bores you to tears) for
the rest of your life
You
cannot afford to be selfish, self-centred, self-conceited and inconsiderate
anymore
Marriage
has lots of advantages and the disadvantages (if you choose) can be outweighed
by the many advantages of marriage.
So
there you go folks. To get married or not?! :P
Source:
http://voices.yahoo.com/the-advantages-disadvantages-marriage-2989650.html
