Night-Out

Maris texted what's the plan- I said I don't know either. So we ended up going to their meeting place- at Poco Deli's.

First stop is at Poco Deli, Kapitolyo, Pasig where we had red wine together with Ate Noemi, Sir Mac, Ate Techie, Armand, Maris, Tita Archie, Sam, Me, and Jc. Humabol lang kami dun after they had their meeting.

Second stop is at Juanito’s, just located near Poco Deli so we just walked going there. We had beers (the usual). We gotta talk about lots of things because the place is quiet and is a good place to chill and converse with your friends.

What do you think of having a LOVE SCHOOL? :D

I’ve been thinking about this since college, “that there should be a school for love.” LOL

But seriously, it always crosses my mind. Why? It’s because most of us have been ruined/being ruined/soon to be ruined when we didn't handle being in-love in the right way.

Love is very difficult to describe. This subtle feeling may occur because of a single look or how someone looks at you. Aminin, most of the time it is the physical appearance that that plays a huge role in being attracted to someone. Kung baga, it’s the starting point.

However, the physical attraction is not enough. It is also the spiritual and emotional mutuality of the partners. Therefore, if people do not vibe well with each other spiritually, physical attraction may wear off soon.

It is difficult to conceal love from others especially when the person you love is just beside you or within your social circle. People who know you well will immediately notice the difference in your attitude and in your aura whenever that person is near you. When you are ‘in love’ you cannot hide your feelings no matter how hard you try. You will end up expressing love one way or the other.

So, let’s now talk about my dream of having a love school. Why on earth have I thought of having such?

It’s because your school, career, family, friends, are affected when you get heartbroken. Yes, there should be a “love school” which I imitated from the term “law school” where teachers will teach the students how to handle relationships, cope up with separations, and how to love ones self. If everyone will be taught about these things, maybe, just maybe, the world will be full of “lovers”. Not the “lovers” that you’re thinking but my definition is:

Lover- a person who loves himself/herself; a person who loves and appreciates small things around him/her; a person who loves more and hates less.

They said that the feeling of being ‘in love’ is the most beautiful ever. But some would say that being ‘in love’ is the most painful thing that ever happened to them. A person ‘in love’ should be happy, secured, appreciative, and all the positive words. You will find that everything around you is bright, sunny, optimistic, happy, and so on. Being in love is a unique experience all human being should undergo. However, some are on the opposite side, they became hateful, unsecured, and unhappy. The latter should not be the supposed result of being ‘in love’. If it ends that way, then there is no love that binds you.

Anyway, this is just my thought. You may agree with me or you may not. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and I know that each of us has different DNA patterns so we act, speak, feel, look, differently. It’s the way we handle ourselves anyway depending on the environment we have.

Everyone is Getting Married: So What?! :P

"Getting married" is being a trend. It started when I graduated in college and that was year 2009. 2013 na! That means, nadagdagan yung mga nagsipag-asawa sa batch ko nung elementary,high school, and college. And why am I saying this? It doesn't bother me, I hope so. LOL. I'm so fond of babies and wherever I go, if the parents are not that suplado or suplada, I'll go near them and play with their babies.

Getting married is a very serious stuff. You have to be SO ready before entering into the "married" status. I'm not jealous whenever I heard that someone I knew is getting married. I'm getting used to it as months pass by.

What are you entering into if you're getting married? That means you go home early for your husband/kids. You cut some of your gimiks, shopping, coffee dates, and other social responsibilities.

What is Marriage?

Marriage is the process by which two people who love each other make their relationship public, official, and permanent. It is the joining of two people in a bond that putatively lasts until death, but in practice is increasingly cut short by divorce, legal separation, annulment, etc.

Marriage is supposed to be a union of two people in love. (But there are exceptions like fixed marriages) But like every great thing in life, marriage has its advantages and disadvantages. Here’s what I got from Yahoo. 

Advantages of Marriage

The ability to love and receive love in return. Marriage to someone you love gives you an avenue to channel all your love and attention especially for people who never really received love as children. Loving someone who loves you back is the greatest feeling most married people experience in their lives.

Research has shown that children raised by married couples do better than children raised by single parents. Most religions encourage raising kids in this (marriage) environment because it is believed to provide the necessary balance in the upbringing of children. Let's face it; it is easier for two people to raise kids than for one person to bear the burden of raising a kid(s) alone. Raising kids is tasking for two people let alone one person!

The best way to have great, wonderful and guiltless sex.

Marriage provides some sort of security (especially for women), having someone who loves and chooses to support you financially is also a great advantage (don't you think?).

To have someone to love unconditionally until death parts you.

Marriage provides you with a companion that you can grow old with and share your stories of the old days with.

Marriage helps you to be tolerant, unselfish and caring. Many married people can tell you for a fact that living with someone for the rest of your life is not one of the easiest things for anyone, especially if the other person is totally different from you.

Marriage helps you to be disciplined in your finances, time and your sexual libido is reserved for one person and one person alone (your wife or husband), period.

You have someone to share life's challenges, rewards and sorrows with, a person who actually knows what you are going through and feels the same way too.

You don't have to worry about the dating game any more, you don't have to worry that your hair line is receding or that your arse and thighs are getting bigger.

Disadvantages of Marriage

Sex with only one person for the rest of your life. For some people, it is unfair to have sex with only one person!

Everything you own belongs to her and vice-versa

The sacrifices or compromises you have to make in order to get along with your in-laws who particularly get on your nerves

You have to give up so much of your freedom in order to stay married

You cannot afford to spend your own money at will because you have a family to support

Having to live with the same person (who sometimes annoys or bores you to tears) for the rest of your life

You cannot afford to be selfish, self-centred, self-conceited and inconsiderate anymore

Marriage has lots of advantages and the disadvantages (if you choose) can be outweighed by the many advantages of marriage.

So there you go folks. To get married or not?! :P

Source: http://voices.yahoo.com/the-advantages-disadvantages-marriage-2989650.html

My Life, My Crisis

I'm getting used to having a good rest at home after work and not studying at night.
( I don't miss law school but I miss law school. >.<)

I'm getting used to the daily routine of going to work every morning and be part of the working class.

But something is missing. Do I really love what I'm doing? I'm craving for something and I still can't find it. I guess it's my career path. At the age of 24, I want to have a serious plan for my future. I'm still in a crisis of whether to pursue my law studies or find a job that I will enjoy.

I'm working in a law office but I'm looking for something more. Yes, guilty as charged, I'm still sending resume's to different companies for different job positions. I guess I'm doing this because I'm not contented with what I'm doing. I want a job that I will enjoy. And I'm still waiting for what they call, "the calling".

But anyway, I'm waiting and still enjoying somehow. I just hope that a great twist will happen in my life, a positive twist I mean. 

Good day y'all! :)